Oral Sex - Fellatio

I regard oral sex as the highest form of expression of love that can be exchanged between two people. There is nothing that you can do which more clearly shows your love for him than the worship you can provide to his penis!

Basic Penis
LOOK at his penis. I do not mean a glance, take his penis in your hand and look at it like you are worshipping his penis. When you first start to touch him, his penis will become hard and be in a state where you can really examine it.

The first thing you will notice is if he is circumcised or not. Next take a close look at the shaft of the penis itself. There is a bulbous part of the organ near the outer end, slightly larger in diameter than the shaft, usually called the head. This is the glans penis.

The outside perimeter of the glans penis is the corona, which joins the head to the shaft. This is the most sensitive spot on the penis. It is toward this ridge that you will direct most of your attention when you are giving head. Follow this ridge around to the underside of the penis. I like to call it the underbelly and I am very fond of the underbelly!

You will notice where the two ends of this irregular circle come together. If your partner is not circumcised, this will also be the point where the foreskin is attached. This tiny area is easily the most sensitive spot on his entire body, and it is possible to bring your partner to climax simply by gently tapping the tip of your tongue directly on it. Spend time caressing the glans and those areas immediately surrounding it.

Beneath the glans is the shaft of the penis. The shaft does not have many nerve endings and does not provide a man with any high degree of stimulation when caressed either manually or with your tongue to the exclusion of the glans penis itself.

Now lets go back to the shaft of the matter. The opening in the tip of the glans penis is the meatus. Here is where the ejaculate spurts. I could have said semen is ejaculated but I did not want to sound too professional.

Beneath the shaft are the testicles (testicles, jewels, call them what you like, but let's not ignore their significance). The testicles are extremely sensitive to pain and are not usually considered subject to erotic stimulation to any particular degree. Not true! You can add a high degree of pleasure for him by paying the right kind of attention to the testicles! Such as sucking them in your mouth - one or two at a time.

So look at his penis. Study it. Learn his areas of special sensitivity completely and be ready to apply your knowledge to his body with your tongue and with your lips when you bend your loving head over his penis.

Pleasure Areas
Skill is required to suck your man's penis and provide him with the highest degree of pleasure possible. While his erect penis points toward the ceiling, cup his testicles in one hand and gently, using only your tongue, lick softly, but carefully along the entire underside of his erect organ. As you suck along the underbelly you will learn those areas that give him the greatest pleasure when your tongue is touching them. Unless he is made of stone, your partner will provide you with vivid clues as to which areas are most pleasurable. As you discover these areas of enhanced pleasure concentrate on them.

For most men the most sensitive area will be the point where the ring (or corona) of the head and the foreskin are attached. Or were attached prior to his circumcision. By continued licking and tapping along this area with your tongue you are going to bring forth a geyser. If you are not skilled and you want to please him in a hurry I suggest that you get him off in this manner in order to become familiar at first hand with the nature and delight of his climax.

Climax
As he is getting ready for climax you will note changes in his penis. These signs will be the same every time he climaxes so you can prepare for his ejaculate properly. The head of the penis may swell somewhat larger then it is during normal erection. He may thrust his hips forward hurtling out his penis with his ejaculate. Usually, just prior to the ejaculate, a clear drop or two of fluid will appear at the tiny, lovely lips at the tip of the penis. When you see this or feel the opening at the meateus through his condom you know that the moment of truth is at hand. Launch the torpedoes, full ejaculate ahead!

Techniques

The best position is by kneeling between his legs and approaching his penis from the bottom rather than from the side or the top. Try the various positions I describe later and see what works best for you and your partner.

Mouth Circle
Place his stiff penis inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The penis will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will suffice but it is also effective when your partner is on his back and your head is directly over his penis. The circle should be executed in both clockwise and counterclockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner. When the technique is performed correctly it means many hours of unadulterated pleasure.

Lollipop
With your man sitting in an elevated position and you on your knees in front of him lift his hard penis to reveal his testicles. With your tongue find the underside of his testicles. Now, while resting his testicles on your wet tongue, lick in an upward motion to the very tip of his penis. It is permissible to use your hands in this technique. It is better to do this technique several times in a row - like licking a lollipop.

Sucking the penis
Slide his penis into your mouth but not deeply by sliding your moistened tongue lovingly over the head until your lips close around the shaft at the point just behind the corona. Encase the shaft of his penis with your hand. Now you have several options. Try twisting your head from side to side making sure your moist lips stay in contact with the coronal ridge. While doing this gently move your hand up and down the shaft.

When he climaxes he may want to push your head further down the shaft of his penis. He wants to envelop you with his penis. As you are learning his climax you will miss the fine points if you deep throat at this time. Instead gently suck around the corona as he climaxes so that you can intensify his pleasure and increase the force of his orgasm. As you gain more experience you will be able to tell exactly when his climax is approaching and you will be ready for that initial spurt.

Refine this basic technique and heighten his orgasm by placing your thumb at the very base of the penis in such a way as to block the tube through which the ejaculate spurts. The semen cannot escape even though he is spasming and going through the reflex action of ejaculating semen. If at the same time you suck vigorously on the head of his penis you can delay his ejaculate for several long moments. When you finally allow the ejaculate to spurt it will last much longer and be just as intense as a result. Even though you delay the ejaculate for only a few short moments you will be surprised by the intensity of his ejaculate.

His Balls
Here are two objects that can enhance your partner's feelings more than any other. Begin by gently licking his testicles with your tongue and caress his penis with your hand while you are bathing his testicles with your tongue. Thoroughly wet them with your tongue prior to taking them into your mouth. By giving the testicles a complete tongue bath prior to taking them into your mouth, you will have pressed these hairs down along the surface of the sac and will not inadvertently cause pain by pulling on them. Try stroking his perineum, the area between his testicles and anus. Some men like to have their prostate massaged during oral sex as well. This is accomplished by placing your finger up his rectum.

Quickie Blow Job
Place your lips around the head of your partner's penis and twirl your lips wetly and gently around the coronal ridge at the back of the head of his penis. This does not require any great xxx skill and it works simply because this is the area that is most sensitive on his penis. It is not necessary to be a skillful cocksucker. All that is necessary is for you to find the most sensitive area around the coronal area. By sucking on this area of his penis continuously you will produce a quick powerful ejaculate. It is not necessary to bob your head up and down on his penis to get him off.

Sixty Nine

69 is not always the perfect way to provide your partner oral satisfaction. Inadvertently, one of you will "let up" your end in order to experience the subtle pleasures the other partner is giving you. Actually I believe that sixty-nine is the ultimate pleasure. Done correctly and unselfishly when both of you are completely in tune with each others’ innermost desires, the sixty nine is the ultimate.

Deep Throat
One of the first things you encountered when you first started to suck penis was a gag reflex. Most men seem to want to force their cocks down your throat as far as they can get it. Particularly at the moment when they ejaculate! The biggest obstacle to taking all of his penis down your throat is the fact that there is a bend of almost ninety degrees behind your tongue leading down into your throat. So the first thing to do is get the penis past that angle. Get past the angle of the dangle!

In order to practice this, get in a position where you can turn your head in such a way that your mouth and throat lie almost in a straight line. The best position to accomplish this is to lie on a bed so that your head is near the edge with your body sprawled across the bed so that your head is tipped sharply back. This position will put your mouth and throat nearly in a line and will allow your partner to approach you in such a way that insertion of his penis can be made so deeply that his pubic hair presses against your lips.

The natural tendency of the body is to gag when a deeply thrusting penis is being forced down your throat. You can overcome this tendency by completely relaxing your throat at moment the insertion is made. It is equally important that you maintain this relaxation during the entire deep throating. Let him put his penis down your throat and hold it still while you find the most comfortable way to proceed. Because of your position you will not be able to move or to offer him any greater stimulation than simply keeping your mouth tightly closed around his throbbing penis. If you are able try to stimulate his underbelly with your tongue, do it!

You will only be able to relax and take his penis in this way if you completely trust him. Your partner is in full control. He must initiate and maintain all the motion. Now he begins an in and out movement that is just like intercourse. He should start slowly, especially if this is a completely new experience for the two of you. His only other requirement during this exercise is to keep the motion in the same direction throughout this oral exercise as there is simply no leeway for him to vary the motion from side to side.

Ejaculating
A word of caution. Don't let him get carried away at the moment he starts to ejaculate. At that spectacular moment he will be able, for the first time, to thrust his penis all the way inside your oral cavity and that is the most important lesson of this exercise! His only other requirement during the exercise is to keep the motion in the same against your lips as he ejaculates.

Because of your position in bed you will not be faced with the problem of swallowing his ejaculate. And this is not just because he has a condom on his penis. The reason is because he has gotten his penis BEYOND your gag reflex! Without the rubber his ejaculate would shoot directly into your stomach! If both you and your partner understand what it is that you are trying to do as well as the possible problems that may "ejaculate" up along the way no harm or discomfort will happen to either of you.

It is possible that not everyone will learn the "deep throat" technique but this inability does not make you any less a woman. You must allow your throat to relax completely while your partner is thrusting his penis this deeply down your throat. To do this long enough for your partner to completely get it off is very difficult and may require practice beyond this day. It may be that you will be able to take your partner completely down your throat, but you will not be able to maintain proper relaxation of your throat until he shoots his load.

Hopefully your partner will understand that this is not a rejection of him or of what he is offering you, and it is my sincere desire that you not stop here and think that you will never master the "deep throat" technique. Continue to practice this lesson. Your practice will allow you to take his penis deeper into your throat each time and for longer periods of time.

The Butterfly Flutter
The best position for this very sensuous fellating movement is kneeling over him. If he is on his back kneel between his legs. Or kneel in front of him while he stands. Create the basic vacuum pressure on his penis, but only enough pressure to pull the penis into your mouth ever so slightly. With your lips firmly wrapped around his big swollen penis head and shaft, gently flick the tip of his penis with your tongue. Open around the penis at a depth so that you can touch the tip of his penis with the tip of your tongue. With your lips around the penis make an up and down movement with your tongue. Flutter your tongue up and down the tip of his penis. After several minutes of this continue with the basic vacuum suck.

The Travelling Figure Eight
With your lips firmly wrapped around his penis shaft try very slowly to reach the base of his shaft or as close to it as you are comfortable. With your nose trace a figure eight as if the figure eight were lying on its, side. Your figure eight motion should be three to four inches long. Slowly travel up the shaft of his penis to the head, doing the figure eight motion. Keep doing this motion and let your lips firmly travel up and down the penis shaft. Do this for as long as you are comfortable with it. When you get tired of the movement slow down and return to the basic vacuum suck.

Go down on the penis shaft as far as you are comfortable. All the while your lips should be firmly wrapped around the shaft. Open your mouth as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. While sucking in air let your open mouth travel up to the penis head. Your up stroke motion should end at the head of his penis just as your lungs fill with air. Now with your mouth still open let the air in your lungs out slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the penis shaft. This technique cools the penis on the up stoke and warms the penis with your hot breath on the down stroke. Do this movement as long as you like then return to the basic vacuum suck method. This is great with edible body oils that heat up with your breath. If you feel he is about to ejaculate stop what you are doing and let him cool off for a few minutes.

The Circle
Place his stiff penis inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circle motion. The penis will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue the circle motion. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will suffice but it is also effective when he is on his back and your head is directly over his penis. The circle should be executed in both clockwise and counter-clockwise motions in a slow purposeful manner.